I’m following 50 Cent’s Strength Coach Jay Cardiello on Instagram. He has some really interesting quotes that he shares…some funny….some thought-provoking.
Today he posted:
When you focus on you, you grow. When you focus on shit, shit grows. Read that again.
I know I am guilty of sometimes not just focusing but obsessing about shit…you know stuff that happened already that I say I want closure from yet I’m passing it through my mind, over and over…having conversations with people that I know longer talk to regularly. I want them to admit their part. That they contributed to whatever hurt and pain that I experienced.
Just last night I was reading a post from Melanie Tonia Evans and she was saying that if the expectation is to have someone do something – forgive, apologize, say sorry, tell you they were wrong or whatever – before you could let it go then basically you’ve given them power over your life.
I never thought about it like that.
I’m giving someone else power over my life.
Is this what I want? Hell to the no I don’t!
So I’m asking you today – are you still on that shit?
It’s time to let go and move on…really…it is!