You Must First SEE Value in Yourself to Add Value to Yourself

In the book The Answer, authors John Assaraf and Murray Smith talk about the negative messages we receive growing up: By the time you are 17 years old, you’ve heard “No you can’t” an average of 150,000 times. You’ve heard “Yes, you can,” about 5,000 times. That’s thirty no’s for every yes. That makes for … Continue reading You Must First SEE Value in Yourself to Add Value to Yourself

How Do You Accomplish Anything in Your Life?

Short answer: get out of your comfort zone! We will do almost ANYTHING to stay in our comfort zones. If you want to accomplish anything, you need to get out of your comfort zone- NOW! We understand in theory, that before we can get to “there”, we need to overcome our fears in the present. … Continue reading How Do You Accomplish Anything in Your Life?

You can’t open the door with stuff in your hands…

We yearn for something better...our heart knows what we desire...yet we are scared to put down what we know no longer works. We stand in front of the door of "next"...new beginnings...a different way of being...hands full of STUFF! We're afraid to admit that this load has become too heavy to bear so we feel … Continue reading You can’t open the door with stuff in your hands…

How to Close the Gap between Knowing and Doing

My behaviour never lies. I could talk about all the stuff that I would like to get done, stuff I want to do in my life, places I wish to visit. If I am not getting there then all I’ve been really interested in is being there not actually going. Take for instance my wanting … Continue reading How to Close the Gap between Knowing and Doing